Every year, I hang up the same advent calendar that my best friend Jamie made me in high school more than 20 years ago.
It’s moved with me many times over the years; from where I grew up in a small town in Nova Scotia, Canada to a couple of apartments during university.
Eventually, it made its way all the way to England where it hung in several flats around Brighton.
Now, my daughter finds chocolate coins in the pockets each day in December at our home in West Sussex.
But not everyone looks forward to Christmas.
The truth is that some families who are struggling with money due to a job loss, bereavement or low income will dread the holiday season due the expense.
As a result, many kids will wake up on Christmas morning without any presents at all, while others will go hungry.
Food bank use has more than doubled in the last six years, according to The Trussell Trust, with more than 2.5 million emergency food parcels distributed across the UK in the last year.
This is a 33% increase in the number of parcels needed compared to the previous financial year.
So, when I heard a few years back that the UK Money Bloggers group had decided that their annual “giving back” campaign would be a reverse advent calendar – I knew I wanted to get involved.
This is our fifth year doing a Reverse Advent Calendar in our house, and it already feels like an annual family tradition.
If you want to get involved, it’s easy – even in these uncertain times.
Donations don’t have to be huge – can just mean buying a few extra items in your food shop or clearing out your cupboards for products that you are unlikely to use.
Here’s how to get started.
WHAT IS A REVERSE ADVENT CALENDAR?
The concept is simple: rather than the usual advent calendar where you open a window a day to see a picture, get a chocolate or some other goodie, you add a non-perishable food item or hygiene product to a box which you will then donate to your local food bank.
BUT WHY NOVEMBER?
In my house, we started on November 1st to ensure that the donation will be delivered to our local food bank before the holidays.
This means there will be enough time for food banks to organise the contents and get it out to people who need it most – all of whom have been referred by a professional such as a social worker, health visitor or schools liaison officer.
Many food banks are only open for a couple of days a week, so our plan is to deliver our donations at the beginning of December.
The Trussell Trust has over 1,300 food banks across the UK but if you don’t know where your local one is located, you can find one here.
WHAT TO DONATE
The Trussell Trust has worked with nutritionists to develop a food parcel that contains sufficient nutrition for adults and children, for at least three days of healthy, balanced meals for individuals and families.
A typical food parcel includes:
- Tinned tomatoes/ pasta sauce
- Lentils, beans and pulses
- Tinned meat
- Tinned vegetables
- Tinned fruit
- UHT milk
- Fruit juice
- Essential non-food items such as toiletries and hygiene products.
If you’re organising a collection for your local food bank, please check with them first to see which items they are currently in need of, as it may surprise you: at my nearest branch they are well stocked in tinned soup, baked beans, pasta and cereal – but they urgently need fruit juice and sponge puddings.
But saying that, don’t let that put you off donating the items which may be overstocked if you have them spare, in my opinion, something is always better than nothing: branches often transfer food to other locations if they experience shortages.
This means that your donations go to help people wherever they are in the UK.
DON’T FORGET HYGIENE PRODUCTS
Prior to the Crisis, a third of females in the UK have at some point been unable to afford sanitary wear and have missed school or work as a result, according to the campaign group, Bloody Good Period.
While Plan International reported that 40% of women and girls surveyed used toilet paper because they couldn’t afford period products.
But that didn’t seem to get many mentions in the media when the shops were out of stock and those that did have some on the shelf were rationing rolls.
And because periods don’t stop in a pandemic, things have only gotten worse for those who struggled with the monthly costs – BGP reported a 600% increase in sanitary products from those in need from food banks, community support groups, those fleeing domestic violence, homeless shelters and even NHS frontline workers.
With this in mind, we will be picking up a few boxes each time we go shopping and will add it to the box.
You can help people in crisis to maintain dignity and feel human again by donating other essential non-food items such as these:
- Toiletries – deodorant, toilet paper, shower gel, shaving gel, shampoo, soap, toothbrushes, tooth paste, hand wipes
- Household items – laundry liquid detergent, laundry powder, washing up liquid
- Feminine products – sanitary towels and tampons (in sealed packaging/boxes as any loose products can not be accepted)
- Baby supplies – nappies, baby wipes and baby food.
Did you know that most tampons have expiry dates? I sure didn’t!
But checking the expiry date is important for ensuring that the tampons are well within date and not harbouring potentially harmful bacteria that could lead to irritation or infection.
This means loose products are a no no.
According to Bloody Good Period, they have had donations of tampons which are well over twenty years old! Would you put something that old in your vagina?
(Well, yes, you might actually… but not tampons, okay?)
GET THE KIDS INVOLVED
Audrey has always been involved in our reverse advent calendar as I feel that it’s crucial to teach her about the importance of helping our local community.
Over half term we paint a box and make a calendar so we can check off each day that we have added an item.
In previous years, Audrey has made little Christmas goodwill cards for the benefactors and she even donated some of her small toys and books. She has also suggested that she uses the contents of her “Sharing Jar” to buy some items to pop into the box.
CAN I COUNT YOU IN?
Fancy joining me? All you need to get started is an empty box and a desire you help those in need.
Anything you can give will be appreciated, and it doesn’t matter if you can only do it for part of the month or if your donation is 25 of the same thing.
If you get involved, please post your photos on social media and use the hashtag #FoodbankAdvent.
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